Hi Martin
Im glad the stopper thumb knot worked I use the same theory though I havnt had to test it out yet, both my own and Bens boat have 8mm mainsheets and we have sailed in some seriously strong winds. I replaced both the mainsheets on both boats within a year of purchacing the 2 boats (1343) Bens boat used to be mine before (1959) my present boat.
To solve the mainsheet pulling out of the top block you have to do a whipping on the first inch or so of the mainsheet, use a good quality soft synthetic slightly stretchy thread just less than a 1mm thick I use Fly fishing backing line But I still put the stop knot in too.
I did Bens in 2005 and mine in the winter of 2008 and no movement since then, the advantage of having an 8mm mainsheet is that in lighter winds the sail will more easily fill and set when on a new course for example going from a reach on to a run you dont get into the situation of having to almost force the mainsheet through the blocks which upsets the boats balance.
The disadvantage of having an 8mm mainsheet is that in strong winds you have to have a vice like grip which can result in hand cramps, not a good look when roaming round the boat compound trying to take off your gloves and tiedown the boat to the Island
Hope this helps and to see you again soon